@kimikoglenn - Thanks for your very well-considered arguments. It's always good when adults can engage in a respectful debate rather than the way some just throw an abusive stink-bomb and run.
I have absolutely no problem whatsoever with people who choose a vegan or vegetarian diet for themselves - for whatever reason(s). People's dietary choices should be respected by others, although I don't see an issue with respectful discussions of those choices, if both parties are happy to do so, whether in person or on a public forum.
I apologise for my not making my division of the two groups crystal clear.
My issue is with the many vegans who vocally assume themselves uncontroversially to have the higher moral ground and preach to people who have made a different choice (often seeming to believe them to be stupid - i.e. 'if only they knew that meat comes from killing living animals, they would make the 'right' choice').
The intention to do the least possible harm that is reasonable and practical, whilst understanding that 'perfection' in your own ideal standards is impossible, is very admirable, and any omnivores who seek to hold vegans to the impossible extreme standard of their beliefs are highly intolerant and well out of order, while the said vegan is going quietly about their beliefs for themselves and not attempting to demonstrate their own undeniable piety at every corner.
However, if a vegan sees a person quietly enjoying eating meat and spontaneously decides to go on the attack, hurling insults at the meat eater for choosing not to agree with their (vegan's) ideal for themselves (meat eater's) at any level - whether or not (as most don't) they begin screaming that they are evil, sick murderers and brandishing placards showing scenes from abattoirs - then their intolerance will be met with my intolerance and a demand for them to justify how they are so perfectly pious if I am such scum.
Surely, it is for each individual to decide their own beliefs and what they personally wish to adhere to.
For example, Person A might have had a few long-term sexual relationships and shout abuse at Person B for going home with a different stranger every Friday night. Person C has only ever had sex with one person, and only within the confines of marriage, and believes both A & B to be thoroughly immoral - and vociferously and repeatedly tells them how disgusting they are. Meanwhile, Person D is a nun, who might find it impossible to believe that anybody could want to cheapen themselves in any way through carnal relations, and hurls accusations of vile impurity at A, B & C for wantonly having their varying levels of relationships, when 'everybody knows' they should be 'married to God' and that the only honourable state therefore is complete abstinence.
Alternatively, any of them could respectfully ask any of the others if they're interested in calmly and kindly discussing their different viewpoints in an adult fashion, asking how they arrive at them and if situation xxxx causes them any personal moral issues or if they feel no reason at all for that to be the case. It's all about respect.
If you believe that plants are the same as animals in their life source, then you really should go vegan.... Also, you don't really believe this, because I bet you'd swerve onto the grass to avoid killing an animal in the road and wouldn't think twice about the plants. It's just one of the many ways omnivores try to undermine veganism.
Obviously, I don't believe this at all. I believe that farmed crops and animals are equally valid as human food choices, however, I believe that animals can feel pain in a way that plants probably can't (and are usually considered more loved and/or valuable to their owners, if they are not wild), so of course I'd swerve to avoid accidentally hurting it, prioritising its life over that of crops. However, that doesn't mean that I would go trampling crops for wanton fun, estimating them as of no value at all, rather than using the footpath.
What people seem to misunderstand is, in the nicest possible way, we don't care what you think, we care what we believe. And of course you are very welcome to do the same.
I'm very glad that you, like many vegans, are happy to let other humans get on with their own life choices as they let you get on with yours. My only issue is with those vegans (who are NOT insignificant in number) who clearly DO care what (they perceive that) I believe and want to use force, shame or coercion tactics to make me change my choices to theirs without absolute freedom of choice on my part.
As I said, it's all about respect - and thank you for clearly demonstrating yours. I hope that mine has also clearly been conveyed.