Pregnant and I hate DP to the point I want to leave

[Dusktilmorn]

Been together for a long time and all has been fine until pregnancy. Dh shows no excitement, rarely asks me about it, keeps nagging at me for being lazy when I just feel sick and exhausted, speaks to me like shit, loses his temper with me over everything. I fucking hate him? If I wasn't pregnant right now I'd leave. He can't seem to find any fault in his actions and says that I'm just as bad to him, so I'm trying to hang in incase it's just hormones and I don't actually hate him but, I can't stand him right now. Every conversation about the baby or pregnancy is so one sided, he couldn't give less of a shit. Just completely lost my temper with him and literally told him I want to leave him not sure what I'm posting for but please someone tell me it gets better

It wont get better. This is who he is. People dont change.

How many weeks are you?

It won't get better. And you'll despise him all the more when he doesn't pull his weight when your little one is born

Honestly, this will be worse when you have a newborn. It's scary to think of going it alone, but it's actually much easier than doing it with a 'partner' who nag's and shouts.

This bit is easy for him, and hes already acting like a dick.

Sorry OP, my partner was the same and he gave zero shits when the baby was born too. Not all men are the same though, I think sometimes they find it really hard to imagine the ‘bump’ being a living breathing human and he will get the rush of love and be a doting father.... only you know your DH. What I have learnt though is that people don’t change, however much they talk the talk before you actually get pregnant.