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AIBU?

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To leave Christmas decorations up a little longer?

44 replies

FestiveFruitloop · 02/01/2019 23:58

NC for this as I'm a little embarrassed. Grin

To clarify: I'm not planning to become one of those eccentric 'leave them up all year' people (far too much dusting for starters!) No, but I'm thinking of leaving the decs up till later in January, possibly the end of the month. No, I'm not crazy. Grin I'm always a little sad when the decorations come down, but this year I've realised properly for the first time why that is. It's not just my inner little kid coming out to play (although that too, lol); it's that while the decorations are up, they really help my SAD (which tends to kick my butt HARD for much of the winter) to an astonishing degree. It's not just the lights (although those are helping keep my spirits up no end), but the general festivity of Christmas decorations (and, at the moment, the wonderful smell our real tree is giving off, that's a real mood-lifter).

In a nutshell, I'm just not ready to let my festive mood go out the door along with Twelfth Night when it's helping so much with my SAD. I feel like this every year and I always thought I was just being a child. I partly am, I know that Grin, but I'm also in a 'WTF!' mood about it this year, having realised how much the decs have been boosting my normally flat and vaguely depressed winter mood.

DH thinks I'm mad but doesn't actually mind, and my elderly mother who lives with us also has SAD and feels the same way as me about the decorations providing a 'lift'. So I'm giving serious thought to:

  1. Leaving the tree up until it's shedding too many needles to be worth keeping up any more (dunno how long that will be for a cut tree, we've always been diligent and taken them down on 12th night) and just enjoying it to the full while it's alive. (Tree is in our conservatory at the back of the house, so there's no one to see from the street and think we're barmy.)
  1. Continuing to switch on the fairy lights we have strung up around the conservatory and in the porch, and keeping the two strings of lights we have outside on the fence going on their timer setting until the batteries conk out (and possibly beyond, because I find them so cheering).
  1. Keeping the rather wonderful winter display I've created on a chest of drawers in the hall, and just removing a couple of the more overtly Christmassy items.

Hoping that by the time everything finally does have to come down, the longer days will have kicked in and my SAD won't lie as heavily on me any more, that usually tends to be the pattern.

I've got to be honest, the more I think of doing this, the more I want to just say 'sod it' and do it. AIBU? (and I'm quite prepared to be told I'm a whack job, BTW.) Grin

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PantTwizzler · 02/01/2019 23:59

It’s traditional in some countries to keep the decorations up until Candlemas (2nd Feb, 40 days after Christmas). I say go for it!

Confuzzlediddled · 02/01/2019 23:59

If it makes you happy do it! Life's too short to be unhappy

HappyFridays · 03/01/2019 00:05

I'm with you, I'm doing exactly the same :) We put our decs up very late this year and I feel I just haven't got the full benifit of them just yet! Our tree still smells beautiful, go for it!

Weirdlookingbricks · 03/01/2019 00:09

Your house your rulz Smile
There are a couple of things that will be staying up all year in ours. Fuck it. I like them.

popcorndiva · 03/01/2019 00:10

I have left my fairy lights which go round my kitchen cabinets up. They make me happier and Iceland have fairy lights up throughout winter. I have taken everything else down

FestiveFruitloop · 03/01/2019 00:11

It’s traditional in some countries to keep the decorations up until Candlemas (2nd Feb, 40 days after Christmas).

Hmm... I think it's been way too long since I tried out a new custom, I might just do that! Xmas Grin

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Littlelambpeep · 03/01/2019 00:12

There are worse things you can do ! What harm is it leaving them up if you want to (you sound like a lovely person). Enjoy your home and lights for a bit longer.

AmericanEskimoDoge · 03/01/2019 00:22

Do what makes you happy! It's not hurting anyone! Smile

I'd definitely consider leaving the lights up or even putting up more to leave out all winter, if they cheer you up.

I've noticed that our Christmas lights boost my mood, too, so I'm going to buy some LED votives or tea lights to place around the main room where we spend the evenings. I think they'll help keep things bright and cheery (and they're safer and easier than lighting actual candles every night).

whatsthepointthen · 03/01/2019 00:24

I am, I hd a rubbish christmas
so now im feeling better want to enjoy my tree for abit longer

EwItsAHooman · 03/01/2019 00:25

I'm leaving mine up until the kids go back to school next Wednesday, they're still on Christmas holidays so I'm leaving the house decorated for Christmas.

Boxerbinky · 03/01/2019 00:26

Do what makes you happy! Happy extended Xmas Grin

MaryPoppinsPenguins · 03/01/2019 00:27

I want them down ASAP... I wish I felt like you! Leave them up if they make you happy. Someone near me had the lights on her house all year..

iamyourequal · 03/01/2019 00:29

One year we had a little real Christmas tree in a pot. We kept it decorated and going until mid February! We didn’t have a garden to put it in and I hated to throw it out. I also have a bad habit of buying extra Christmas cake in January to eat until springtime. Do what makes you happy!!

Pavlova31 · 03/01/2019 00:34

I have a friend with a Birthday in late January who always leaves the Decorations up until or just past then.

BlackBeltInPresentWrapping · 03/01/2019 00:34

We put ours up on Christmas Eve and leave them up until Twelfth Night at the earliest or usually Candlemas (2nd Feb). Make sure you keep your tree cool and well watered, OP. There are lots of lovely and often inexpensive string lights available now - you could easily have those dotted around the house during the darker months, (we do).

It's your home. Suit yourselves.

ILoveChristmasLights · 03/01/2019 00:37

^^ see user name 😊

The lights definitely improve my mood too. You could be onto something re ‘sad’ rather than just pretty. I have the old fashioned lights because they give such s beautiful glow.

Much to half of MN’s dismay I have some up in the bedroom too, I love having them on when I go to bed.

Much to the dismay to half of MN, I have some white/silver ones in vases too 🤷🏻‍♀️ I live here, they don’t! 🤣

Lalliella · 03/01/2019 00:40

Your house, your life, do what makes you happy. However if I were you I’d get lots of fairy lights and put them round the house and have them on year round. You could put them in nice vases and bottles too.

Charmatt · 03/01/2019 00:44

Do what makes you happy - it's no one else's business!

(Mine came down yesterday morning as it feels like the walls are closing in when they've been up for 2 weeks. I love the space when they come down and like to be able to dust and vacuum properly!) 😁

Judystilldreamsofhorses · 03/01/2019 00:44

Our tree is dropping needles if anyone glances at it, but I will be really sorry to see it go at the weekend.

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Ginkythefangedhellpigofdoom · 03/01/2019 00:56

Mine are still up but that's only because I literally can't be arsed to take them down yet.

Iv been meaning to do it for two days.

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FenellasRedVelvetDress · 03/01/2019 01:02

Apparently the Queen keeps hers up until just before she leaves Sandringham . She always stays until 7 Feb ( day after the anniversary of her father’s death/her accession). So maybe hers stay up until Candlemas too.
If its good enough for the Queen !!

I think it’s a lovely idea, even better if you get some real benefit from it.
Go for it!

BettyBooJustDoinTheDoo · 03/01/2019 01:02

How about doing seasonal decorations? so for example the period between January to end of February could be lots of LED tea lights or real candles if you prefer in hurricane lamps dotted around, very wuthering heights! You could intersperse these with normal string fairy lights for added sparkle, then from March you could have butterfly and flower fairy lights to signify spring like these pictures, I also like to see outdoor fairy lights in summer always reminds me of balmy nights on holiday abroad.

To leave Christmas decorations up a little longer?
To leave Christmas decorations up a little longer?
To leave Christmas decorations up a little longer?
FestiveFruitloop · 03/01/2019 01:03

Some great encouragement and ideas here, thanks peeps! I've definitely decided to keep tree and lights up for longer. smiles

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