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Early January dead time or still joyful Christmas season?

116 replies

SnuggyBuggy · 02/01/2019 07:38

AIBU to be feeling a bit ugh at this time? I mean technically it's still the Christmas season but no one feels Christmassy, people are going back to work, I'm on mat leave and none of my regular stuff starts till next week.

Are there people who still manage to keep the Christmas feeling until 12th night?

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LordProfFekkoThePenguinPhD · 03/01/2019 08:10

Back to work - annual assessments looming, huge projects with right deadlines looming, DS mocks looming, arghhhhhhh

ToffeePennie · 03/01/2019 08:15

Normally my husband would be back at work, but he’s had this week off, which is brilliant as he can help me declutter, tidy and sort our swamp of a house out - stuff from Xmas is still all over the place and it looks like we have been robbed! I need two days to get it right, especially with a 4 year old and a baby, so I’m looking forward to a couple days proper cleaning before I start on work stuff over the weekend (I run my own business) before Monday when mr 4 goes back to school.
I’m actually looking at these next 4 days as a bit of a break and a rest. Especially if dh can get up to IKEA and sort the storage issues out!

snowmanshoes · 03/01/2019 08:54

I’ve got an excited soon to be 8 year old too. School doesn’t start until 8th so I’d planned accordingly and left the panto and Ice skating until this week to have something fun to do. Work looms though and I’ve got a tonne of things to do personally....

floribunda18 · 03/01/2019 09:54

Daily yoga, getting out into the fresh air even if the weather is shit, and noticing the bulbs coming up already.

PhilODox · 03/01/2019 10:21

I have had my first hot cross buns of 2019 already! Blush

Best part of January...

pleasenotmondayagain · 03/01/2019 10:37

We hosted family this year, and the last visitor left yesterday. That felt like the end of the holidays, really, especially now that the DCs are at school and we're back to work. I was tempted to clear Christmas away yesterday, but ended up taking DCs into town to spend some Christmas present vouchers and see a film. We'll wait till Saturday, have a nice meal, lots of candles, and it is all over for another year.

I had a pre-Christmas blitz on the house and got some niggles fixed, tidied and decluttered, which felt great. Christmas felt like the end point of that, but I spent yesterday evening trying to put the house in order after a succession of visitors over the holiday, and a lot of cooking. Cupboard contents checked, oven cleaned, sheets washed, Christmas presents put away etc. It makes me feel that the domestic sort-out in December wasn't all for one day, but for making the house more comfortable generally.

I want to get back out in the fresh air by cycling to work, I'd love to get the garden looking good this spring, there's a room that needs to be decorated, and I really want to stay 'on top' of family admin now that we're in a good starting place. I've joined a weight loss thread on these boards to motivate me into keeping on the pre-Christmas trajectory and not eating my weight in Christmas cake in the next week. I've got a couple of big projects at work to deal with, and thge focus and motivation there will help.

I feel a bit of January gloom, but it is nice to be back in some sort of routine and start to think about new things. I do like the sparkle though!

silkpyjamasallday · 03/01/2019 10:45

I'm always just happy the madness of Christmas and new year is over and I can get back to 'real life' and getting stuff done.

EmNetta · 03/01/2019 15:04

Any time after Christmas, one of my friends used to replace all her cards and decorations with bowls of spring bulbs; mostly hyacinths for scent, but lots of other varieties to have 3-6 bowls flowering in every room. It was her answer to after-Christmas blues, and meant she could extend the entertaining season (and pass on her good idea so others might invite her back to view their own displays when most bowls were at their best, hence variable dates.)

Crimson72 · 03/01/2019 17:37

Enjoyed your post pleasenotmondayagain, thank you. I'm really struggling to find the motivation to do much now I'm back at work - and I run my own business, so I seriously need to get on top of things!

I'm not sure why either - I just feel incredibly lethargic this week for some reason.

SerenDippitty · 03/01/2019 17:42

It was my first day back today and I really wish I’d booked the rest of the week off. It was so quiet, not quiet in the sense I had nothing to do, but there were only a couple of others in and the building was so quiet it was oppressive. Glad to come home to my Christmas tree.

SuziQ10 · 03/01/2019 17:51

My Christmas ends after New Year's Day. Have never done anything remotely Christmassy after Ny and all decs come down, back to work & normal

DavetheCat2001 · 03/01/2019 18:11

Took the cards and decs down off the Christmas tree earlier. OH will be wrestling our, now crispy, 7ft tree down the stairs and out of the house when he gets back from work!

Feeling a bit sad that it's all over so quickly yet again..I think Christmas makes me feel really nostalgic for my own childhood, and it's almost like a cocoon of un-reality for a week or two to just enjoy being with friends and family, eating lovely food and drinking too much booze!.

I find myself this January once again jobless as I was at the beginning of last year, which has not helped my mood in general. Feeling like I have no sense of purpose once again, and will feel this particularly when the kids go back to school next Tuesday.

Meh.

Aaaahfuck · 03/01/2019 18:12

Well I'm back at work so not really feeling like it's Christmas still. We still have the decor ilup as haven't had time to take them down yet. All my neighbours have taken their decorations down. I think it's a bit of a shame that Christmas doesn't extend to 12th night any more.

SnuggyBuggy · 03/01/2019 18:17

I've really appreciated reading all your comments. Not sure why I've been so down these last few days, maybe loneliness. Had a quiet day with DD, might take a walk into town tomorrow to try and distract myself.

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Crimson72 · 03/01/2019 18:20

I think it's a bit of a shame that Christmas doesn't extend to 12th night any more.

Did it used to? Even as a kid I remember it being pretty much "over" in our household after NYE and the Christmas tree looking sadly out of place.

Feeling a bit sad that it's all over so quickly yet again..I think Christmas makes me feel really nostalgic for my own childhood, and it's almost like a cocoon of un-reality for a week or two

I think that's the thing - it's such a cocoon and it feels like such a shock to be thrust back into the real world so suddenly!

CigarsofthePharoahs · 03/01/2019 18:36

I had a few plans for the last days of the school holidays.
Instead I have a raging temperature and my lungs are more mucus than lung. Post Christmas flu. Urk.

A few years ago DH and I were pottering round some shops and he said that we'd better head to a card shop.
I asked why, after all nothing interesting happens in January.
He gave me the Hmm look and said "Our wedding anniversary?"
Blush

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