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To think she's a bit obsessed?

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nattyffd · 26/12/2018 21:57

My friend has liked a guy for two years now.
Yet she won't tell him she likes him.
She checks on his Facebook every 5 mins to see if he has been active.
She posts snapchats and if he hasn't looked at hers in a hour she texts me "he hasn't looked at my snapchat quick today he mustn't like me"
She's driving me barmy ..
Is this a obsession here?
How do I tell her to chill out?
Tell him she fancy's him or drop it?

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TheLightSideOfTheMoon · 26/12/2018 21:59

Sounds like he's become her hobby/habit.

AGHHHH · 26/12/2018 22:01

2 years. Tell her to either make a move or shut up!

nattyffd · 26/12/2018 22:03

2 years !!! Long years!
About a year ago he was showing signs of interest and she did nothing.
Now he is all she talks about.

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Paranoiasettingin · 26/12/2018 22:07

Sounds like she missed the boat and hes given up! Give her a nudge to tell him or move on. Its a bit unhealthy. Tell her theres a whole world out there thats moving and real whilst shes stuck and he may even have a gf now. Bless her cotton socks...

Pieceofpurplesky · 26/12/2018 22:07

Tell him Wink

Seriously help her forget and move on. She has probably built it up to perfection in her head and is scared that it wouldn't live up to expectations.

MarthaArthur · 26/12/2018 22:08

Is she 15?! Because 2 years is a long time not to make a move :o

YouTheCat · 26/12/2018 22:08

Is she 14?

Mistlewoeandwhine · 26/12/2018 22:09

Ask him out for her.

nattyffd · 26/12/2018 22:19

She's 26 but is a massive wimp when it comes to it.
He was texting her dropping hints for going for a drink and she didn't reply Shock

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