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Bah Humbug!

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PinkFizzz · 24/12/2018 20:49

I wish it was January and all this shite was over with. I have a 9yo and visiting family tomorrow so need to put a brave face on regardless.

"D"P has form for being a shit at Christmas but so far had been fine. He has turned on me tonight, shouted at me to get out of his bed and out of his house, silent treatment, swearing etc. I'm in my room in tears and he has fucked off to the pub with his brother and dad because apparently he can be civil to everyone else but me.

It's the same every year, I've messaged him and been really nasty which I now regret but I hate him for being like this with me when I've tried hard to be sensitive and not "force" Christmas on him whilst still trying to make sure we have a nice time.

Fuck this.

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FestiveNut · 24/12/2018 20:51

I don't think Christmas is the problem here, OP. Why is your DP so nasty around the holidays?

GreatDuckCookery6211 · 24/12/2018 20:52

Oh no OP. Can you stay with your family long term? While you find somewhere else to live? You deserve better and so does your child.

PinkFizzz · 24/12/2018 21:08

He hates Christmas. This will be our 3rd living together and its always the same. I still don't know exactly why because he refuses to engage and then its forgotten a few days later.

All ive asked of him is that we relax tonight and have a drink together and watch our boxset - its not as though I've dragged him out to a pantomime or something. I dont like Christmas much either but I make an effort for DS sake.

Family stay to far away for me to move long term, and the rest of the time we are ok.

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