I got really annoyed earlier. My FIL dropped off his daughter (teenage SIL) at our house while he went shopping at local supermarket, no prior warning or invite.. Said he would be 20min. He was gone 1.5hrs.
The second he left SIL said she's not feeling well with stomach bug and wants to lay on my sofa. Ok. Thanks, coming over to my house on Xmas eve with a tummy bug to spread around.
My DD 4yo was in her room, SIL wanted my DD to come down and see her / play. I said no, I'd rather she keeps a distance since you are poorly and it's Xmas tomorrow.
SIL very moody, sulked the rest of the 1.5hrs, said nothing too me and complained to her father when he got back that I hadn't let her see her niece. I know she was upset but I feel I had good reason to keep DD away. Honestly I was really annoyed she had been dropped off at my house unwell. Very thoughtless? Or am I to blame / being unkind. Should I apologise ?