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To tell DD she can only watch the film Up if she skips the first 10 mins?

38 replies

Geekster1963 · 23/12/2018 18:41

I find the first 10mins or so so sad, gets me every time.

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Angrybird345 · 23/12/2018 19:14

She probably won’t get that bit...

GeorgieTheGorgeousGoat · 23/12/2018 19:16

What happens?

Aquamarine1029 · 23/12/2018 19:16

FGS. Death is a natural part of life. Suffocating your child in figurative bubble wrap to "protect" her from the ills of the world will do her no favors.

category12 · 23/12/2018 19:16

You don't have to watch the first 10 minutes, you can go and make popcorn and drinks, or go to the loo or something.

TheSheepofWallSt · 23/12/2018 19:17

On the flip side, I watched and had a solitary silent tear.

DS (who is 2 years old, couldn’t see me, as he was sat on the comfy cushions 6 feet in front of me and certainly didn’t know I was crying) was an absolutely devastated, hysterical sobbing mess.

I think it was the music- he gets very emotional with orchestral soundtracks

Jbck · 23/12/2018 19:18

Thought I was going to have to leave the cinema, as was my friend but we couldn’t leave 9 year old DD1 sitting there on her own ☺️

Geekster1963 · 23/12/2018 19:19

Aquamarine it’s not her I’m wrapping up it’s me! We do talk about things like death and she does ask me questions about it.

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Needcoffeecoffeecoffee · 23/12/2018 19:21

It's so sad Sad
My dc are used to me sobbing at films (lion King, ET etc) and barely flicker any emotion. They are like robots!! Grin

modzy78 · 23/12/2018 20:03

My 6 year old daughter watched the start of it. I talked a bit with her about what was happening. But I'm not sure how much sank in. And then I left the room to "check laundry" after. My husband walked in the door, and I told him he just missed the start of Up. Think he was a bit relieved about his timing, to be honest. It's so brutal (as is the end).

TheWildRumpyPumpus · 23/12/2018 20:12

I think I’m an oddity in that it doesn’t make me cry at all (and I weep at all sorts of happy and sad stuff on the telly)

Chouetted · 23/12/2018 20:14

Honestly, I've never seen the rest of Up, I couldn't make it past the beginning.

Couldn't understand why everyone else raved about it!

After reading this thread I'm still not sure...

limitedperiodonly · 23/12/2018 20:28

I hate Up. The bit up until where his wife dies is really good and the rest is sentimental nonsense.

WALL-E is worse though. I really hate that film

TacoLover · 23/12/2018 20:34

Could you just not be in the room for the first 10 minutes then, if your DD is fine with it?

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