Married for 18 years and relationship is just going downhill fast.
Everything is always my fault, every niggle, every disagreement. He's works hard but so do I between work and running the house.
Everything I ask him to do seems like it's too much hard work.
Seems to speak to me like shit but is fine with outsiders.
I can't talk to him about how he is making me feel cos he turns it back round on me and doesn't actively listen to anything I say anyway.
He doesn't come to bed till gone midnight most nights by which time I'm fast asleep! So sex life is also dwindling. We never go out together as a couple either.
I actually dread him coming home, he doesn't make me feel good about myself at all. When I do talk to him, I constantly have to repeat myself or I get 'you didn't tell me that' .
I'm 40 he's 47 , I can't imagine another 40+ years living like this. We also have 2 girls aged 15 and 10.