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To be like a teenage boy with the woman I'm dating ;)

25 replies

MeVersionThree · 23/12/2018 10:24

Met her last week after chatting online for 2 weeks on and off, got on really well, laughed loads, had a kiss at the end of the date 😁 Flirted loads since over messages too.

Now we're trying to see each other again, today, but it might not work out because of her work...

I think I'm only slightly aibu I think but OMG I want to jump her bones... 😉 (which I really didn't expect, because I'm not long separated, 20 years out of my teenage years, and not one for objectifying women, being one and all, but I really do, not that I will just yet and certainly wouldn't unless she wants it too, and it's only our second date...)

Mumsnet jury, be kind 😆

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cowfacemonkey · 23/12/2018 10:25

Have a quick wank and get on with the day love

MeVersionThree · 23/12/2018 10:27

Charming, thanks!

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Pachyderm1 · 23/12/2018 10:28

Enjoy!

Bombardier25966 · 23/12/2018 10:33

Women don't generally go for teenage boys. Maybe keep the youthful exuberance to yourself.

TheGirlWhoLived · 23/12/2018 10:35

I read it as a lesbian relationship, not that it makes a difference

LittleBot178 · 23/12/2018 10:36

Urge teenage eagerness is such a turn off. Sorry mate, cold shower time.

JustanotherCHRISTMASuser01 · 23/12/2018 10:36

When do schools go back again? We've had an influx of these posts past few days

zen1 · 23/12/2018 10:40

The OP is also a woman.

MeVersionThree · 23/12/2018 10:48

Wow you lot are cynical, I was just enjoying the feeling of initial dating being a bit giddy this way again, instead of a knackered and worn out by my kids...

I've been around for a while, recent name change (penis beaker, elderly korean lady, CF renovating their flat and nearly destroying the OPs...)

I'll bow out now and get the thread removed, Happy Christmas all! 😆

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22Giraffes · 23/12/2018 10:51
Hmm
ClaryFray · 23/12/2018 11:05

There is nothing wrong with a little teenage enthusiasms. Fill your boots. And ignore those nay sayers!

marvellousnightforamooncup · 23/12/2018 11:09

I agree with Clary. Enjoy it while you can. As a middle aged woman married for a gazillion years I think you're lucky to have that spark of enthusiasm. Have fun, but don't show your over eagerness.

Oorwulliesbucket · 23/12/2018 11:14

Aw don't listen, it's a lovely feeling. I do love my ol' husband but do miss that feeling of initial lust. Enjoy xx

MeVersionThree · 23/12/2018 11:28

Aww thank you, the 3 of you, it is exciting isnt it? Thought I'd never feel like this again, so it's lovely and I am just enjoying it. Good point about watching how much of it I show though 😁

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Rainbunny · 23/12/2018 11:38

I fancied the pants off my now DH when we met, I love him tremendously but I really miss the physical intensity of infatuation. Enjoy every moment of it OP!

flumpybear · 23/12/2018 11:41

Nice to have some excitement again I'm sure - enjoy

southnownorth · 23/12/2018 11:43

Enjoy OP.

Have a lovely Christmas Xmas Wink

ginghamstarfish · 23/12/2018 11:44

It's lovely for you, OP, I remember those long-lost days, but yes, not always wise to show it quite so much to the other party!

User5trillion · 23/12/2018 11:44

I miss those" god I need you so bad days" enjoy them while they last.

katekat383 · 23/12/2018 11:47

Jump her bones 🤮

MeVersionThree · 23/12/2018 11:54

Oooh this is turning into a marmite thread, its quite funny now 😆

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Iputthescrewinthetuna · 23/12/2018 13:51

Aww isn't this lovely! (Maybe hide a little of the eagerness though in front of her)
However, feeling like a teenager again is lovely! But, ew, I hate that expression 'jump her bones' 🤮

Go enjoy, I hope it works out! New love is amazingly exciting! Especially when it has potential to keep for many years!

NicoAndTheNiners · 23/12/2018 13:54

Ahhh, I think this is nice.

Miss those days where your chest goes tight/feel tummy butterflies when you think about someone.

MeVersionThree · 23/12/2018 14:11

My apologies for "jump her bones"... 😆

Happy to use any other preferable phrase, but am not suggesting any in case I get myself into more hot water 😆

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MirriVan · 23/12/2018 14:23

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