So dh's last day at work was Friday 14th, not going back till 2nd of Jan
This week while he was off me (teacher, part time) and kids still at school.
He said before the week to tell him stuff that needed doing and he'd be happy to do them.
So I said could he pls do the usual household tasks - normally I do 90 % of them, this week I still
Did about 30 %.
Also asked him to
Take stuff to post office
Take stuff to dump
Buy iphone for dd for xmas
Investigate options for a new car
Pick up a click and collect in town
Wrap some presents
Do five school runs
So Monday he had about 8 hours to himself, Tuesday the same, Wednesday about 10, Thursday 6 and Friday six.
The dump and the phone took him a couple of extra trips as he didn't check opening hours/stock before going.
He's been in a pissy mood all week. Today it came to a head and he erupted saying I ruined his holiday by having him run around all week, that asking him to look for a new car was a huge job that I shouldn't have asked him to do.
Aibu to think he's being ridiculous? I think all the jobs could easily have been done at a leisurely pace in two days, leaving three days free - not my fault he was disorganised. Yes I do get more time off than him but when I'm off I'm always with the kids, including a youngest ds with challenging sen. I normally do all these jobs while working - and in my work weeks I never ever get time to myself, cos I'm either at work or withn ds.
I am so