Our neighbours have lived across from us since around late spring and I've spoken to them a few times, he's cut a patch of grass for us and we kept an eye on their house when they went on holiday a few weeks ago. They're more of a "keep to themselves" family.
For Christmas I've bought some Christmas cards to send to our neighbours we're friends with and the neighbours I've just mentioned have got a cat who visits us nearly every day to see my autistic DD, sneaked inside a few times and just sits in our window looking out. He loves getting cuddled and played with and I reckon he must be quite lonely being an only cat. We have four of our own and only two get along with him but he's not keen of them to be honest and would rather spend his time with my DD.
Anyway I've let DD write out their Christmas card saying "To [cat's name] and family, merry xmas ect. from house X] and also stick a drawn picture of their cat in the envelope.
My DD asked if she could also wrap a cat toy up and we can post it through their letter box and I said that fine but I think it might be a bit cheeky now? The Christmas card is already addressed to their cat which I hope they find a bit funny and they know their cat is often coming to ours which they seem to be fine with and they've had a laugh about. But would it insinuate that we care for their cat more they than do and are trying to "look after it" ect?? Which we don't at all.
Shall I just forget about the cat toy and post the letter or also get them a little potted plant or something along with the cat toy which would mean I'd have to bump into them to give it whereas I'd just have to post the cat toy through their letter box. We're doing one last shop on Christmas Eve so I'll probably forget to buy a cat toy anyway.