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This is strange behaviour?

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Hotchocolate18 · 20/12/2018 19:29

Tbh I find it quite funny and I'm not upset by it but just thought it was odd as I wouldn't do it. Guess it's a compliment.
I was sitting at my desk and a colleague commented on my hair looking nice. I had plaited it. As that person got up to get drinks, the girl beside me quickly plaited her hair too. Half a hour later the girl who complimented me turned around and said oh you both have the same hair. I just sat and laughed and the girl beside me got a bit flustered and was like oh hot chocolate has done hers better and tried to change the subject 😂 very odd.

Anybody got any funny workplace stories to liven up my Thursday night?

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steff13 · 20/12/2018 19:41

Maybe the woman next to you is interested in the other woman and was trying to get her attention?

You're going to get flamed for calling women girls. 🙄 Personally I like being called a girl.

Hotchocolate18 · 20/12/2018 20:11

She's getting married to a man in a week's time so doubt that.
Getting flamed for that really? 😂

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steff13 · 20/12/2018 20:12

Yup, sometime will come along and say something like, "where do you live where they let girls get married?" Something snarky like that.

Livedandlearned · 20/12/2018 20:17

I noticed that posters on here don't like the girl/woman thing. How about lady, would they like to be called that I wonder?

hairypaws · 20/12/2018 20:45

Delurking to say I like girl too. I hate saying/being called lady, don't know why, just makes me cringe a bit. Woman sounds old to me and I'm 48 so hanging on to youth by my fingertips.

Hotchocolate18 · 20/12/2018 22:03

So any one got any funny work stories?

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hairypaws · 20/12/2018 22:25

No funny stories but I finished up today until 8th January. It's been a long hard slog the past couple of months with staff on long term sick so really need this break.

ihavetonamechangeOMG · 20/12/2018 22:38

Not work story but I did click on the thread wondering if it was going to be a neighbour of mine wondering wtf I am doing

Bluebonnieblue · 20/12/2018 23:29

Also delurking to confess, I also say "girls"! If someone calls me a lady or a woman a small piece of me dies and I gain a grey hair.

Joanne721 · 20/12/2018 23:56

My co-worker gets numbers wrong, his first language isn`t english,yesterday he asked the manager if he could take the 71st of December off workGrin

Joanne721 · 20/12/2018 23:58

I also prefer to be called a "girl" as it makes me feel young(i`m the wrong side of 50)

BoswellandForshort · 21/12/2018 01:41

I’ve found my people! Girl for me too.

OP, I have a copycat story too. I used to be a teacher and one year I was praised in a staff meeting for how I’d written my end-of-year reports. In September, I was looking for some information on a child in my new class and had a look at his previous report. As I was reading, it slowly dawned on me that I was reading my own words. His previous teacher had copied one of the reports from my old class almost word-for-word, just changed the name and added some individual targets. I went through some more of her reports and every single one was copied from my class. Very odd. (Obviously I reported it to my team leader)

Dotty1970 · 21/12/2018 01:51

where do you live where they let girls get married

Hotchocolate18 · 21/12/2018 06:43

Ah I'm glad I'm not the only one who prefers girl too. She's early 20s so would be odd calling her a lady.
71st off 😂 bless him!
boswell that would have annoyed me! What did your team leader say?

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