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AIBU to get this seen or not?

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PookieDo · 20/12/2018 19:02

I am not looking for medical advice on the Internet I suppose just sensible opinion - I tend to be a worrier and I don’t want to go to a doctor if this is my imagination

DD2 is now 14 but always had issues with feeding when a baby. Hard to wind, a LOT of sickness and pain. Grew out of the reflux at about 1.

I have noticed since she was a small child that she sometimes coughs when she drinks - a gone down the wrong hole, small, tickle cough. As she’s never had any chest infections or any such like I haven’t thought much of it, but had wondered if a coordination thing like tipping in too much liquid from the cup, as it doesnt happen the same way with a straw. She also doesn’t/can’t burp.

Today I got cross with her because she confessed she had forgotten to drink anything all day (8 hours) and has a dry throat, and during the heated discussion about why this is bad for your kidneys, she said that it feels uncomfortable to swallow mouthfuls of liquid. She says it has always ‘hurt’ to do so. Which is news to me Hmm

Now I know that she has had her throat looked at by GP’s multiple times over the years, also by the dentist. But perhaps this is further down and I am now all of the paranoid that I would be irresponsible not to get it checked out. But as it doesn’t seem to be causing any significant issues and could be a teenager being dramatic should I waste NHS time on it?

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Quarky · 20/12/2018 19:05

Yes. If you're worried enough to write this then it's worth a doctor's visit. Don't worry about wasting their time, your daughter is more important.

Ycochyn · 20/12/2018 19:15

Definitely take her for a check up to be on the safe side.

PookieDo · 20/12/2018 19:23

I just worry I am going to look a bit bonkers.

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JontyDoggle37 · 20/12/2018 19:25

Better you look a bit bonkers than your child is in pain. Go, get her to talk about how much it hurts and how long it has hurt for. And never feel guilty or bonkers for standing up for your child.

PookieDo · 20/12/2018 19:28

What is the bonkers bit is she says this is just liquid and never food. I mean it does hurt if you swallow a large mouthful of liquid doesn’t it

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Nefney14 · 20/12/2018 20:47

It’s actually really common when there’s a problem with swallowing for liquid to cause more of an issue than food. That’s why when there are swallowing issues after a stroke etc a thickener is used in drinks. (I may be wrong on this part) but I THINK it’s something to do with the brain needing more of a hint that it needs to swallow so by making the drink thicker it makes it easier to go down. I’m a HCA and coughing while eating and drinking along with pain when swallowing is definitely something we’d get investigated so definitely worth a gp appointment in my view.

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