DH left the family home without explanation or notice at the end of November, we had been together 30+ years and have 3 teenagers. He is apparently living with his new partner about an hour away from us. Since he left he has seen one of our children twice (ten minutes and an hour) one for an hour and the eldest not at all. He mentioned to his favourite that he might take her to show her where he is living on Christmas Eve. I told her I didn't want her to go that far to visit somewhere/someone we know nothing about. He has told and involved us in so many lies that I wouldn't trust him to walk in a straight line!
As far as I know he has offered nothing further to them and so I have carried on making family Christmas plans. I know that he is off work Christmas Eve, Day and Boxing Day. It's all now only a few days away and I wonder if he is going to spring something on them at the last minute and upset everyone all over again. Or not try to see them at all. I don't know which would be worse for my children.
So AIBU to wish we could just go straight to January 2019?