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AIBU?

Share your dilemmas and get honest opinions from other Mumsnetters.

To not want DS to come home?

28 replies

BandOfOses · 18/12/2018 12:32

DS (17) is a constant self harmed. He’s violent and suffers with rage. On Sunday night he came home arguining with someone on the phone and then stabbed him self in the stomach with a kitchen knife. He then ran off. Police and ambulance were called ... he was running down street at 2am screaming and shouting. Police followed up other calls by members of public and eventually found him suffering with stab wounds. He had emergency surgery and is now recovering on surgical ward. Mental health team are going to assess him as soon as he’s medically fit. I’m terrified they will simply send him home for him to do the same thing again. I know he will either kill him self or kill someone else. He threatens to kill people regularly.

WIBU to push for him to be sectioned? For his own safety and everyone else’s?

He’s currently awaiting the outcome of a serious assault charge on a random stranger which happened weeks ago so he is no stranger to violent attacks on others.

OP posts:
Atalune · 18/12/2018 16:33

He’s in the right place and you have nothing to feel guilty about.

Sounds very hard for you both. FlowersGin

Purpleartichoke · 18/12/2018 16:41

He is getting the life saving care he needs just like if he had cancer or had been in a car accident. The timing is unfortunate, but the holidays often exacerbate mental health conditions. Believing he belongs in the hospital doesn’t mean you don’t love him.

HollowTalk · 18/12/2018 18:04

You should only feel guilty about things you have or haven't done, OP. It sounds as though you've had a really difficult time with your son and I hope this Christmas you can relax for a while, knowing he's in good care.

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