Earlier this year I let my spare room to a friend who was between places. The room was fully furnished with new Ikea furniture (not the cheapest range) - perfectly adequate but not famed for being good for dismantling!
I came home from work one day to find that he had taken it upon himself to rearrange the room and taken apart some of the furniture - I know this as it had all been put in my cellar. I was pretty annoyed as I didn't think it would go back together and also my cellar is dirty and damp and told him the room must be put back as he found it when he left.
Fast forward 8 months and said friend is now moving out. I asked him to put all furniture back together and guess what - it won't. This is mainly due to pieces being lost whilst it has been moved. My cellar is damp along one wall and where the furniture has been leant against the wall it is now dirty and discoloured.
Brought this up with my friend and he is of the opinion that he has done nothing wrong - but I now cannot use it and will need to shell out again for the next lodger.
I didn't take a deposit from him as when he moved in it was initially a short term let!
So who IBU? Can I ask him formally to pay towards the cost?