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To have hijacked the DPD van!

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IchWill · 16/12/2018 13:58

Just taken a Christmas delivery and DP reminded me about something that happened a while ago. Feeling a bit mortified on reflection! Blush

I ordered some shoes in-store at Kurt Geiger, got home from work to see DPD had tried to deliver and the card said to go online to book a new slot. The next morning I went online to rebook and see the next slot was the next day, at lunchtime so I could be home from work to accept the delivery.

Then later that day, I was home from work, saw the DPD van pull up and notice it's the exact time I had rebooked for, but it was obviously the day before.

Thinking I'd made a mistake, I went out to the driver as he delivered at the house opposite and was looking like he was about to drive away, I showed him my card and asked if he has my parcel, he checked the back of the van and he did. So be scanned it and said that he couldn't give it to me as the delivery was cancelled that morning (at the time I'd gone online to book a slot) and it seems that DPD had put the parcel back in the van to reattempt delivery that day, despite the fact that I hadn't booked a slot myself at that point.

So when I'd gone online, I effectively "cancelled" it from his deliveries that day, in favour for delivery the day after. Odd system.

Anyway, I said to him, well look you're here now, as am I. I really want that parcel, so please can I have it. He refused. Said he can't. So I asked him to call someone senior to ask if they can authorise it, he started to get rude and said no. I understand they are under pressure for deliveries, but I was frustrated by his rudeness and just being a bloody-minded jobsworth. I'd been extremely polite to him.

I pleaded with him, to please call a supervisor, he's stood there with my parcel and I can't have it.

Again he refused and lobbed my parcel into the back of his van and started to close a door.

I saw red at this point, the way he threw the parcel and his manner tipped me over the edge.

So before he could close his second door, I flung myself into the van like a mad woman and sat in it, with my legs dangling out of it and said I wasn't moving until I got my parcel. He was speechless and said I need to move. I again asked politely and asked him to call someone to get authorisation to give me my parcel.

Seeing I wasn't budging, he complied and rang someone. I heard them say to him, "Of course she can have the parcel, don't be so silly!", so sheepishly he gave me the parcel.

I thanked him, apologised for my drastic action and went back inside.

My shoes are lovely by the way. (See pic).

To have hijacked the DPD van!
OP posts:
ImogenTubbs · 17/12/2018 21:29

DPD service is shit. It may not have been his fault personally but they have a job to do to deliver a service and they weren't doing it - making you, the paying customer, have to faff about and wait when it quite clearly makes sense just to give you the damn parcel. You didn't threaten him or verbally abuse him. Why should we have to put up with terrible service just because a massive company has badly thought-out policies and ineffective systems in place? If you don't complain, nothing ever changes!

SpamChaudFroid · 17/12/2018 21:30

DPD's service is appalling anyway.

I get really excited anxious when expecting a parcel too OP, and then to have it snatched out of your very grasp!

Some posters are being very snarky.

To have hijacked the DPD van!
SpamChaudFroid · 17/12/2018 21:36

InSightMars So do you think OP's a shoe fetishist?

JingalinginWales · 17/12/2018 22:30

She is going for funniest MN poster 2018 with 'hilarious' threads in Classics.

BelindaBellender · 17/12/2018 22:58

“Slipped discs don't bring constant and daily pain and I've had to make lifestyle changes to ensure this. Not that it's any of your business.”

Stop making your personal health issues public then on a internet forumConfused

civicxx · 18/12/2018 01:03

HAHAHAHA you've received hell for this what is wrong with people, I live for reading people's ridiculous replies on here!!

Love that you jumped in his van, love the shoes!!!

ThumbWitchesAbroad · 18/12/2018 03:39

I had a delivery driver "experience" today which was so far removed from my experiences in the UK - I was sent a parcel from an ebay seller, and got an email yesterday to tell me it had been lodged with the courier. Got home at lunchtime to find another email telling me it had been delivered - Great!! except I couldn't find it.
So I called the courier company, and (being sane people) they gave me the delivery driver's work phone number so I could call him direct and find out where he'd put it.
He told me he'd put it on my back deck (which I don't have) behind the black Ford (which I don't have) and then apologise profusely and said he might have got the wrong house - so I checked my NDN's yard (I know her, we're friends, it's ok) and sure enough it was on her deck, behind her black Ford.

Job done, nice and easy, no fuss from anyone, situation resolved.

SO MUCH EASIER than all the jobsworth bollocks that I had to put up with in the UK, and that the OP had to deal with.

BoneyBackJefferson · 18/12/2018 07:06

MarthaArthur
Genuine question here isnt he technically stealing if he refuses to hand it over to the owner as you paid and own the shoes.

He isn't stealing as the OP hasn't received the shoes and they are still under the companies care.

The delivery company dont own it so can he legally refuse to give it to you?

He was doing what the OP had asked him and the company to do. So its a very awkward situation for him to be in.

MarthaArthur · 18/12/2018 12:50

I get that the company is in charge of making sure the package is delivered but doesnt it cross some sort of line when the owner of parcel is there and so is the oarcel and he agreed he had it and still refused to hand it over? I work with delivery drivers every day at work and i know they have easily changed delivery times on their hand held devices so i just wonder why he couldnt.

MarthaArthur · 18/12/2018 12:51

I understand though it was an awkward position to be in and i understand both of their frustrations.

Myusername101z · 18/12/2018 12:53

Shoes look like the kind everyone wore at uni in 2008

Howareya123 · 18/12/2018 12:56

I love this story.. gave me a great laugh! Your shoes made me say "Ooh wow" out loud too🤗

hamburgers · 18/12/2018 13:08

@Myusername101z yessss 😂😂

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