My DH is an arsehole. He has depression. Anxiety. Stress. Paranoia. Insecure. The lot. His anger and impatience is off the scale.
He brings home the money and is selfless with it.
But he is so unpleasant. Everyday he loses his temper. Shouts. Swears. Calls me names. He isn’t going to change as he thinks he isn’t doing anything wrong.
He is absolutely vile to my eldest child. He can’t parent with her and See you soon x awful things to her.
We own this home together. In an ideal world he’d leave and me and children stay put with him welcome to come see them here whenever he likes. Even on a temporary basis.l till he can get his head straight.
I run a small but successful business and would have to reduce this to minimal or close it completely if we split up. This is due to childcare.
Can anyone suggest what I can do? He won’t leave. He says he will not pay the mortgage then he wil destroy my credit file and I’ll not be able to buy a car etc. Which id need to get kids to school, clubs etc.
He needs to go but I don’t know how and I’m also afraid.