We have come to the US and live in a liberal state. Been here over a year and have another four to go as a work programme for my husband.
It is a massive change in culture. More so than we could ever imagine.
The cost of living is really high, REALLY high. A quick supermarket trip for some bread, milk and a couple of bits and pieces can easily cost $70.
The outlook on life is very different. It’s almost cultlike in the belief that all things American are superior and Americans can achieve anything they want. That’s interesting to be around. The support for military is brilliant but then you get people who want to sing Trump’s praises non stop.
The road laws have been confusing as are the insurance and medical cover.
We have found that people don’t try to help you out, for example you call to speak to someone but you get put through to the wrong. instead of offering to transfer you they will say that you have the wrong office and have a nice day then hang up. The bureaucracy is on another level. Nobody takes ownership of anything and you can speak to someone about something, call back an hour later and speak to the same person who will claim not to know anything about it.
Setting up bank accounts and getting TV licenses etc takes time and you don’t get a credit score for around 12 months and so you need to have access to cash to get yourself set up.
The gun culture is a massive shock. To see people in the play park with a handgun on open view on their hip really is breathtaking. People have them open carry in the supermarket etc. It’s scary but really makes you think about beeping the car horn at people!
There is so much we miss about the UK, we can’t wait to come home.
Our neighbors are lovely and we have made friends that way but it can be quite hard to meet people.
The houses are fabulous, so much more space and well designed, upstairs laundry rooms for example.
Transport is different, where we live there are no trains and the public busses are used by homeless people as a shelter. They are not a form of transport used commonly, everyone drives all the time.
It is a good thing to experience but it really is tough and I don’t think we would do it again if we knew what it would really be like.