Posted here previously but NC for this as it is outing.
Backstory: stepdad died recently. Bio dad has never made much of an effort and sees me twice a year when I chivvy him to see siblings.
He came up for a visit and made repeated comments about my home being too far away during a convo when he said he would be driving my sibling around further distances for competitions (think triple the distance). He also said once a year to visit me was too hard as 'logistics' were difficult.
Got a text saying stepmum 'had wanted chat about stepdad's death' and see how I was'.
Given their VERY low contact, AIBU to be furious as this text which is clearly to ease guilty consciences? WWYD? Tempted to phone to have it out but aware that the high ground is to ignore and tell myself they are just t. Aware I'm probably just pissed because the one who cared died and I'm still stuck with this useless idiot. WWYD?