My employer would pay my maternity leave
A full year in full pay? You may want to check that.
Imissgmichael restoring to personal insults just proves you have no point But can't accept it. I gave my opinion. Which is that ok has been clueless with her money for years. She is facing consquences. Not punishment. Consequences. That's what happens in real life.
I haven't said who deserves sympathy. What I have said is that the OP is clueless about money. If she can't afford to pay more off her bills now, she can't afford her half of the bills. Because they will come to more than the £300 she is paying out now.
So either she can afford to pay more off her debt, which would help her in the long run. Or she can't afford to move out.
Again, where is the money coming from to furnish the house, to get the babies stuff etc if the op can not up how much she pays on her debt?
She can afford to pay more but is so stuck in the 'I want' mode, that she won't pay them off and make a better future.
That's up her, but then to moan that landlords shouldn't be allowed to refuse you a property because you are crap with money, not to mention claiming she would be homeless (which is bollocks and an insult to people who are actually at risk), is ridiculous and shows how immature she is.