Anyone here who's never met their DCs stepmum?

[Londonburning]

Just that really. Anyone? I don't have a good relationship with my ex, I try to keep him at arms length and only speak to him about the kids. He's been with her for a year, and they already live together. Never met her, and I feel it's weird to go on years like this without meeting the person my children spend time with?

I met my ExH wife the summer before we married over 20 years ago. She was a apparently an old friend from school. The weekend was very odd and I didn’t want her invited to the wedding. When he buggered off 7 years later guess who he shacked up with! Since then I have never spoken to her. They have been married for 11 years now. What in God’s name would we talk about? Very happy to have nocontact .

That should say “current” wife.

She was the OW. There's no way I'd want to meet her. I know what she looks like thanks to Google but I seriously hope I never have to meet her