Hi. I’ve been married with husband for 2 years and have a lovely son together. However I’ve been very patient with him, his temper, his stress for 4 years. I don’t know how long I will be able to do it. It stresses me out as well. I remember me being calm, happy, and laid back before dating him but once we got together I become more stressed and angry more often which is not me at all. Every time my husband gets stressed it stresses me out as well because he will shout at me. Also he shouts at me for getting stressed too. I mean I try to calm you down from getting stressed but you yell at me every time I do that. Now we’ve got a son it’s even worse. Every time our son cries he wants to know the reason why he cries. He asks me, if I say i don’t he will shout at me saying I’m the mother staying with the baby all the time why wouldn’t I know. If we’re not in his sight he would say what I’ve done to our son to make him cry or if I’ve hurt my son. I’m like. Seriously!? Why would I hurt my son? What do you think I have done to him? He blames me for everything basically. One thing I can’t stand is swearing and calling names. He does that every time he loses his temper. Yes we argue but I never swear at him or call him names. We had a row yesterday. I was hold ing my son and walked out slammimg the door. He came after me and pulled my shoulder back saying ‘how fucking dare you slammimg the door in front of son. Don’t you fucking do that again.’ I mean if I can’t slam the door in front of a baby you can’t swear at his mum in front of him either. Once he called me dickhead for doing nothing as he thought I made my son cry but he walked into my leg and fell over. I feel like I never get any respect from him at all. I feel tiny and I cry for that many times. He wants to have another child but I’m not sure if I can do it becuase of my husband being like this.