I've never posted on here but lurk a lot. After a horrible evening with my husband with him grabbing my wrist to pull me along to walk faster and calling me horrid names in the street I need some advice. He's just pulled my whole world apart he thinks I'm useless and lazy but I'm not.
So he thinks I'm a sponger for claiming benefits. I claim DLA (since I was a child) and more recently universal credit.
I have two disabilities, one physical injury and one autoimmune so I get very tired. I have also recently injured myself so I cannot work but when I am better I will be able to but he thinks I'm pathetic for saying I will only be able to work part time which is what I think I will be able to do and he said he has no respect for me if I only work part time.
He also says I should never have children. I do get tired and have limitations but that is all I want in life and he has crushed this. I know I would be a great mother. He thinks people with disabilities should not be parents and also shouldn't claim benefits. I just don't know what to do. I want to leave but can't afford to and I feel that no one else would ever want me. Is he right in saying these things? Should I not hope to have children in my life?