To not send christmas cards

[Baulbleboa]

So ive decided not to send personalised "title" Xmas cards this year (mum/dad/bro/cousin) etc

I will send a card per household, one of the cards my DD designed at school for charity

Sorry posted too soon!

I know I'm not BU To do this

But AIBU to warn people in advance that I'm doing this ?

I will be making a donation to NSPCC in lieu of these cards, but wondered if I should mention in advance so that they are released if the obligation to buy me one ?

But you’re still sending cards?

I’ve only every sent one per household.

I'm sending one per household instead of e.g. SIL/bro joint card, auntie,uncle, cousins
cards, (so potentially six cards for that house) just as one example

I have never ever bought individual Christmas cards and have always sent one that is for the whole family

That's normal OP one for each family group if they live in the same house

What about DM? Would normally get mum and granny card ... AIBU to give her one card?

I'm baffled by these daily posts asking the same question - while always pointing out the charity angle - send them or don't - I'm not sure it's such a dilema

OP - you are way overthinking this. Just send one per household.

And donate to the NSPCC whatever you decide.

If you wanted to give an individual card without buying a mum one, just take a different one out of the pack you are using

Dementedpixie they're all the same

Buy the "from my house to yours" cards

ghostyslovesheets

I'm baffled by these daily posts asking the same question - while always pointing out the charity angle - send them or don't - I'm not sure it's such a dilema

Pointing out the charity angle? It's just the reason love . Chill.

Our family decided to just stop sending cards as its a waste of money and card, we spend all xmas and new years together anyway.

MumGoneCrazy

These are great, but,
I don't want to to buy anymore cards ... Not for the cost, more for environment.

So I was asking if AIBU to send the school & donate what I would have spent to charity ...

I guess I'm making this a dilemma that it needed be is because I know I will receive all the auntie/sister etc cards and AIBU to not do the same

Needn't

Quite possibly the most confusing thread of the day.

WinterfellWench
Thank you , (graciously takes a bow)

You send the same card to everybody? I try to buy cards that have at least 2 designs. I use up cards from last year too so I have a range of designs

No, the pack of cards I bought from school, were designed by DD, and are all the same design.

I have no other cards

And I really don't want to buy any.

Seriously, it’s very normal to buy one per household.

I have never in my life had an individual card.