Relationship and child

[Be17]

Any advice please I'm a stay at home mum lived with my mum when my daughter was first born now living with partner we are not married his sister got a large sum of inheritance so bought him a house its in both our names we argue a lot it's emotionally draining he spends £250 a month on weed only happy when high doesn't help with our daughter his mother causes arguments between us so I've had no contact with her for a year thay acted like I wasn't there when I did go round yet in front of my family and friends act nice and caring I think she has a narcissistic personality disorder I've had enough but I'm afraid he's threatened to take me to court and says I don't stand a chance cus his family has money and I have nothing his family doesn't see the real him I don't want my daughter and round this madness she's my world any help or advice please

If house is in your names it’s legally half term yours. Doesn’t matter who bought it. £250 a month on drugs?!
Why are you still with him?

If the house is actually in both names you’re entitled to half but I’d check that it is. Unless you actually saw all the legal documents and papers I wouldn’t ‘take his word for it’ it seems odd they would put your name on it if they don’t really like you

Check also if he protected his deposit when he bought the house_ it can still be in both your names, share the house once his deposit is returned

@OnlyFoolsnMothers The house was bought not rented. Why would the deposit be returned?

If people aren’t married and buy a house and say one person puts in a hefty lump sum (sorry deposit is the perhaps confusing terminology)- they can in the paperwork protect their lump sum. So assuming the house is sold for a profit the lump sum has to first be returned to said person before any gains are split.

Don't let them bully you. It's sounds like you will be better off without him.

Go to citizens advice and get some legal advice so you know where you stand.