So basically I have a 7 year old child who I raise on my own his dad isn't involved at all by choice. I have had a colourful life varying from my mum abandoning me and my siblings as children and then going into the care system then our dad fought in court and gained custody and raised us on his own. He's mentally ill so always was sectioned and also he's a drug user always has been so often was in prison, didn't have a normal childhood whatsoever. Anyways since then a close family member who my dad lived with died leaving my dad homeless. My other siblings wasn't in a position to home our dad so I let him move in with me, that was almost 5 years ago. Since he's moved in things have changed. I sleep on the couch and he has my bedroom. I have nowhere to put my belongings as he has my room. Then he started making my home his home, treating it like shit. Won't clean up won't help around the house won't contribute to any bills. Started to borrow him money which I never get back and if I do in goes back into the house so I don't actually get it back sort of thing. I have no privacy as I don't have a bedroom and have lost relationships due to this and cannot persue any relationship as I feel my dad is too involved in my life. My friends stopped coming over my social life ended and i fell into deep depression. Stayed in on my own all the time and i won't lie turned to drink to cope. He's still taking drugs amphetamines which he's awake at 3 am downstairs while I'm trying to sleep on the couch. I never have any money any more and struggle to manage since he's moved in. Last year he got himself a flat which he's still not moved into! I even got investigated for benefit fraud as someone claimed he's living at my house. We have had endless arguements which I have told him I want him to move out so I can get my life back. I'm not allowed friends or people over and if I do he gives me nasty looks and nasty attitude. Since then my son has been into school telling the teachers my dad's on drugs my mum never has any money and I'm drinking. Now I'm waiting for the social services to turn up. My dad came this app n I had to sit there n try to explain why my child thinks my dad is on drugs! He's come back stormed off to bed (my room!) And I'm the cunt. All I want him to do is move out and let me be the mum I know I can be! He says he's here for me because I have been depressed which obv it's this living situation which is getting me down. I feel hopeless he just won't move out and i feel I owe my dad some sort of duty as he raised us on his own. I have tried my best and begged my other family members to help me as I cannot cope. Now it's impacting on my son and I'm prob gunna have the social round which is gunna tip me over the edge. Aibu kicking him out before Xmas? Before u all start ripping me I never wanted this I love my family but I love my son more. I have lost myself trying to help and i can't help but think I have had the piss taken out of my life and I'm really fucking angry. What the fuck can I do how the fuck do i make this end? Thankyou to anyone who actually managed to finish this thread. I just don't know what to do and i don't want to loose my son at all I don't do drugs myself and i told him I didn't want that shit in my house but like everything I say or feel it doesn't matter sort of thing. He is mentally ill and I'm just so fucking gone with all of this thankyou x