So i have a fwb who I been seeing a while now and it seems to be going ok. We keep things between ourselves and i haven't felt the need to tell my friends about him as we ain't in a relationship and i don't think there's much to say! Add into the fact there is an age gap between us and he's related to one of my best friends (and no it's not her dad!) So I keep things to myself everything is fine. Yesterday my friends bf called over to collect some Avon for his Mrs my best friend (he had been sat with fwb that day) he came picked up the Avon and on his way out started telling me he's having problems with my friend in the bedroom, found it very strange but I just said things will work out between u both she's just had a baby things are gunna change. He then went on to make a comment about she never let's him do anal so I just laughed in shock and he left. Once again strange. Anyways go over to see fwb last night who was sat with my friends bf yesterday. We then had sex and tried to initiate anal which he's never done before and it's not something I want to do at all so that didn't happen! Came home thinking he's been sat with my friends bf all day he comes over talking about anal randomly and then fwb tries to go there! Aibu to suggest he's been speaking about me to this other guy and that's where the random anal convo came from? May I add my friends bf is a very sarcastic person so looking back now it's making me think he was laughing at me. Now I'm wondering if anything has been said and if yes then what? Bit of a coincidence. Before u all start saying anal is part of what men want or whatever he's never tried it before we never discussed it and I'm not one for making an exit an entry just no chance. Aibu presuming there's been something said here? Sorry for long rant lol x