DH won’t tell me what’s wrong

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My DH works away Monday - Friday (as in leaves Monday morning and comes home Friday night)
Today he is been in a horrendous mood but won’t tell me what’s wrong. Keeps snapping at me and saying he’s had a shit day but doesn’t want to talk about it.
AIBU to want to know what’s wrong? I’m not pushing it but I’m concerned. This is unlike him and has gone on all day via text/a phone call

As frustrating as it is I think you need to do an “If you need to talk I’m here” text and then leave it. It’s very annoying to have someone pestering if you don’t want to talk

Leave him be - he said he doesn’t want to talk about it. Maybe he will tomorrow. YANBU for wanting to know what’s wrong, YABU for going on at him to tell you.

Bit odd to not want to tell you? Something he's ashamed of, or something he can't share with his wife....

Sorry just to be clear the bad mood has gone on all day - I’ve only asked what’s wrong once!

I think you're right not to push him. He might need some time to process it before he feels like talking. He will probably tell you tomorrow. But I think it's fair enough to ask him to stop taking it out on you. I can see why you're concerned but if he won't talk you'll just need to be patient. I hope it isn't too awful.

Might he have been sacked or up on a disciplinary for anything?

I wouldn't refer to it again tonight, though. I'd leave him in peace. You'll see him tomorrow.