... me and DH have moved recently back to his childhood hometown. I'm starting to get to know some of his less immediate family better and they're... weird...
Turns out both of his uncles visit prostitutes who are much younger than them (their are in their 50s, girls are in their early 20s). DH didn't know this. His brother who he doesn't speak to much is actually quite racist (I'm mixed race and he thinks it's normal to talk about 'blacks' and 'coloured folks' in front of me as if they're (we're?) a bunch of muppets who belong in our own little box) - again, DH claims to be unaware of this, but did shut his brother down very quickly. Another family member was caught last week exposing himself to someone in the woods near us (they were a family) and his youngest brother just sits in his room smoking weed all day doing absolutely nothing with his life...
AIBU to feel generally uncomfortable that his family are so odd? Is this normal? Does everyone have people like this in their family?
I literally had no idea they were THIS weird...
I have a newborn (7 weeks) and as ridiculous as this sounds, I felt very uncomfortable with a man who visits prostitutes holding my baby. DH says none of my business, but I feel... odd...
Not sure where I'm going with this post. Just need to get that off my chest I guess! Can't talk to my family about it as I don't want them judging DH for it. DH is very normal...