To think perhaps it’s time to tell someone and get help?

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I have hyperemesis. I’ve been admitted to hospital several times in the last three weeks due to bleeding, suspected ectopic and the hyperemesis itself (which was the worst of all three hospital trips).
I was okay ishfor a couple of days but I’ve now gone back to not being able to hold anything down and my antiemetics not working. I can’t cope. DP can’t keep taking time off to take DS to and from school and I can barely look after myself when I’m doing this badly.
I’m shaking, I’m collasping all over the place. Nothing is staying down. I’ve tried many anti sickness treatments so far and the pills seem to make me sick faster.

We didn’t want to tel anyone because we’re very early and there is a huge risk at the minute in that I’ve got a few other problems that I didn’t realise before getting pregnant.
But I just want my mum. Or someone to help me. I want to stop feeling guilty that I can’t take DS into school or get up and make lunch let alone go to work.
I feel dreadful.

Would you tell and ask for help? Nobody lives nearby so I feel really alone right now.

Yes of course tell someone and get help, you poor thing! I do hope you continue with the pregnancy, but even if the worst happens, you need support now.

You poor thing!! I absolutely would tell. I told my parents and in-laws early, because I would want support if I was struggling, but also would want support if I miscarried.

Yes, Jesus Christ tell someone!

YES tell someone! I had HG; it was awful and so so demoralising. Ondansetron until the day I delivered was the only thing that helped but you may have to fight to be prescribed it.

Yes! Tell your Mum and anyone else that can offer support. I really feel for you.