Hello I have only been a member a few months and its my first time as a OP.
This may be triggering but I need to vent and have honest opinions.
I have a beautiful toddler and am ready to have another child with DP.
But I've found out I won't be able to have another child without IVF.
Both me and partner really want another baby but I'm afraid that IVF child may have problems/illness in life and I may start having health problems from IVF that means I won't be in as good as a position to look after my child who is already here. I really wanted more children but I am so afraid of making my child's life harder than it needs to be for selfish reasons. Any advice from those in the know??