It was my birthday yesterday and a few days before my DP said he needed to go to uni that evening. I was a bit like that's crap, but you got to do what you got to do its for your degree. We have a shared calendar on our phones and he took it off a couple of days ago, I asked him if it was still on and he said yes. I got home from work last night, we had dinner then he said he was off to uni. Well it turns out he lied about it, on the way home when he called (as he usually does on long journeys) he said it had been cancelled last min and he didn't want me saying he couldn't go to football. I explained I would have been fine if he would of been honest with me, but I was hurt that he had been dishonest with me. Well he comes home and straight away sits on his playstation. I tell him I'm off to bed again on my own and I get a quick goodnight whilst he plays his games.
AIBU to think he's a selfish prick. He games a lot (probably 4 out of 7 nights) and often doesn't come to bed when I do. He has headphones on when gaming, talking to friends so I get to hear it too when i'm in bed, then get woken up about 2am when he comes to sleep (it has been as late as 5am) . I have spoken about this before but it falls on deaf ears.