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Would you date your friends son?

33 replies

hlob · 30/11/2018 17:23

Absolutely pointless thread. He hasn't shown the remotest bit of interest in me that way 😂

But older friends adult son is really quite lovely

(She's about 35 years older than me, he's about 10 years younger) or something like that

So I'm definitely not going to since he's not in the slightest interested but is that a really creepy thought? (Never going to tell her)

Denise/Kush

Or go wash brain with bleach at this slight crush?

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hlob · 30/11/2018 18:23

I love how people are still considering and mulling it over for me needing ages when I've definitely said it will not happen, he's no interest and it's a secret crush 😂

34/24 ish I may have slightly changed that out of being paranoid of the DM picking up stories

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IHaveBrilloHair · 30/11/2018 18:25

No, and nothing to do with age.

RoboticMary · 30/11/2018 18:30

No no no! Creepy as hell! Absolutely not!

Life0fBrian · 30/11/2018 18:37

I worked with a woman briefly who was utterly thrilled with herself as she was early 40s shagging a 19 year old. She had kids not much younger than him. Made me feel a bit sick to be honest thinking how her kids would feel if they knew and how his mum would feel.

Life0fBrian · 30/11/2018 18:38

To answer your question OP I wouldn’t go there!!!

hlob · 30/11/2018 18:39

Okay how do you get rid of creepy thoughts?

I mean I haven't perved at him or anything. I've literally just thought oh he's lovely and wished someone like him would show an interest and wondered if he did how weird that would be

Acutely aware that he's not shown any interest and just been polite to mums friend.

Just wait for it to pass? Get therapy? Be suitably disgusted and embarrassed to avoid him for a while and only meet her alone?

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StarCutterCookie · 30/11/2018 18:43

Flick the bean silly over the weekend and get it out of your system.

Stay away irl and don't turn up pissed at xmas demanding a 'xmas hug', you'll just look like one of those weird older auntie's that say inappropriate things and clearly haven't had it in a while.

hlob · 30/11/2018 18:49

😂

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