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To rename my 8 week old?

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finchwoman · 27/11/2018 21:45

Alright, I need some honesty here. If someone told you they renamed their 8 week old, what would your reaction be? Would you perhaps think it's daft, strange, or maybe wouldn't be news at all?

I never thought I'd find myself in this situation but I registered my DD and I've completely gone off it. Actually, I never cared for the name anyway. There was one name I absolutely loved and my family all shot it down saying it was horrid and suggested the name we went with. Registered her, went home, got some sleep and woke up wondering what the hell had just happened.

Now ever since I've had a chance to relax, I wish we'd have gone with my favourite name! I'm pissed off my family did this when I was in a state, and I'm even more pissed that I let them talk me out of my favourite name, I mean it's only going to be DD's name forever. eye roll How did I let that happen! I'm sitting here crying over it frequently, and the name just feels out of place.

DH says we should do it, but I really don't know what kind of ground I'm standing on here. I know I shouldn't give a toss, but I'm wondering about the social implications this might have (if any).

And no, I won't say the names, I don't want you lot saying "But Freya* is so much nicer than Gertrude*! Don't change it!" :)

Thank you all. I just need a bit of honesty I think as I can feel myself getting a bit out of sorts about it.

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hellsbellsmelons · 29/11/2018 15:50

Glad you are changing it.
I know a couple of lovely Hannah's and one very horrid Gloria.

WhereYouLeftIt · 29/11/2018 20:58

"Perhaps it all seems a bit trivial, oh I know it probably does."
It's not trivial though, is it? If you had to call her a name you didn't choose and didn't like,several times a day for decades - I don't call that trivial.

Glad you've decided to go ahead and change it to chat you chose and you want.

Sweetooth92 · 29/11/2018 21:17

I’m a hannah. Growing up (& now at 26) would FAR prefer hannah to Gloria. Change it, sod your family and go enjoy her 😍

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