We have 2 ds, 3 and 10 months. 'D' H got a sickness bug on Friday night and is still feeling very unwell, although hasn't vomited since Saturday.
I'm really struggling atm, as baby has never been a great sleeper, but is ill at the moment with tonsillitis. I've genuinely not had more than 90 minutes sleep in a row for the past two weeks (dh been sleeping in spare room).
I've had both kids at home today as eldest was sick yesterday so didn't go to nursery and it's been raining all day. DH has been resting. Except he is appearing at intervals complaining about the noise, kids crying etc. I'm having an absolutely shit time trying to keep them entertained and feeling really miserable (although not ill... Yet). He's really been complaining, ranting and shouting and I'm thoroughly pissed off at him. Gems include, "I just hope you don't get ill, in this house you just need to carry on as normal."
I'm furious! I don't doubt that he's feeling ill, but I never get to 'opt out' and leave someone else to look after the kids. And if I ever was lucky enough to go back to bed and let him take over I wouldn't complain about the noise as I'd be so bloody grateful someone else was dealing with it for a while!
So who IBU?