I adore my DH, he is a good husband but he hates housework so therefore I do most of it. Both work full time, him from home or travels internationally, me 2 hour commute. We agreed that he could do more, he said he just doesn't 'see' what needs doing and I admit I'm overly house proud. So we need to meet in the middle, I appreciate that. He asked me to draw up a list of what needs doing daily and he could chip away at things through the week. The list has been on the kitchen bench for the last 2 weeks untouched !!!!!
I've just been promoted at work, should I use the extra money on a cleaner or a divorce? How can I get him to see what needs doing, he'll put on laundry and take it in or cook. But getting anything else out of him is impossible !!! I can't do it all anymore .....