This might be a long one but I'll just give you a little background as to not drip feed.
My granddad was really poorly in hospital he has just passed away a week ago, I offered myself to help my Nan sort some things out and stay for a couple of nights. Me, my mum and my aunt have all stepped up to do this. I took on the admin, I've had to do everything myself I don't mind really but I'm grieving too, I have arranged the funeral, went to collect medical records and his things from the hospital, went to sort out the death cert, have closed all his accounts down etc. But I have a small child at home (3) and I have stage 4 endometriosis so I'm pretty much in constant pain from when I wake up. I also have issues with my mental health and I've been having panic attacks.
My OH has been at home while
I have been helping out and doing what I needed to do that side of things but he has done NOTHING round the house. I already asked him for help before my granddad died because my pain was pretty bad. He didn't help then either. I came home
On Saturday mentally and physically exhausted and he hasn't even hoovered, there was dishes everywhere and the house was generally a mess. These are the things I usually do when my pain is more manageable but aibu to expect a little more help the last week?