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mimibunz · 25/11/2018 11:38

People, mostly women I guess, sit crossed-legged in public. Not sure if it’s actually called cross legged, but it’s the way children sit when they are told to sit in a circle on the floor. Today at breakfast I saw a woman sitting this way; she actually removed her shoes so her bare feet were on seat. I also have a work colleague who does it. Anyone knows if this serves a purpose or is just preference?

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AloneLonelyLoner · 25/11/2018 11:41

To me it always seems like it’s people being cool and young. It’s also a common thing for the yoga crowd to do. It does seem odd to me. At 45 I’d feel like a pretentious boho ass (which I am obviously, but I like to not look it).

MrsBartlettforthewin · 25/11/2018 11:43

My feet don't touch the floor in most chairs so sitting crossed legged is more comfortable.

WinterfellWench · 25/11/2018 11:46

What a weird thing to get bothered about! Confused

I don't give a damn how people sit.

I sit however feels comfortable and any given time.

And I am not a child or teenager - SHOCKER! Shock

LooksBetterWithAFilter · 25/11/2018 11:53

I sit cross legged like that I have no idea why I just don’t feel comfortable sitting with my feet on the floor. Tbh now I’m getting older it’s not any mire comfortable sitting cross legged it’s just habit. I also sit with one leg tucked under me quite a lot as well.
I wouldn’t take my shoes off and sit cross legged in the tube or anything but I probably do it in other places that others might find weird. It’s got nothing to do with being young and edgy I’ve just always done it.

mimibunz · 25/11/2018 11:56

Winterfell I’m not remotely bothered by it, although I don’t like to sit on a seat where someone’s bare feet have been. I am genuinely curious. My husband suggested it could be a muscle stretching thing.

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JagerPlease · 25/11/2018 11:59

Like a PP I hate sitting with my feet on the floor so sit with legs either crossed or tucked under

SoyDora · 25/11/2018 12:03

Never noticed this!

MickHucknallspinkpancakes · 25/11/2018 12:04

To let a nice breeze waft up my Fanjo.

ToastedSandwichObsession · 25/11/2018 12:07

I must live in a very non trendy place because I've never seen anyone do that here Hmm

Underpressureidiot · 25/11/2018 12:22

I used to sit like that as a kid because I had pretty severe dyspraxia and couldn’t get comfortable any other way to do writing etc. It would be more comfortable for me to sit like that in public now, but I don’t because it’s rude to put your feet/shoes on seats where other people sit! Yanbu, irritates me too.

mimibunz · 25/11/2018 12:27

A fanjo breeze waft. Grin

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theonetowalkinthesun · 25/11/2018 12:30

I'm sat cross legged right now! It's just more comfortable!

Eliza9917 · 25/11/2018 13:10

Winterfell I’m not remotely bothered by it, although I don’t like to sit on a seat where someone’s bare feet have been. I am genuinely curious. My husband suggested it could be a muscle stretching thing.

It's not a muscle thing, they're just wankers. There is no need to sit like this in public unless you are sitting on the floor. It's not acceptable to do it in Costa/the library/McDonald's/the bus stop imo.

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