Good evening all, (sorry if long)
Now I’m not some huge hater of smokers.
I used to smoke and did so socially from a Young age. I always smoked sporadically and only if I was drinking . I quit this year when I found out I was pregnant when I was 5 weeks. I haven’t even said forever, I told myself it’s a break from smoking for my baby.
It was full proof way i believed I wouldn’t be tempted, never saying never but calling it a break for babies health. I’ve since thought less and less about it and doubt I will start again and certainly wouldnt smoke or be anywhere near my new born, or have clothes or anything to harm her. (Just some background on me as I’m not a hypocrite)
Now babies dad smokes, we smoked together on our dates ect. We aren’t together as were briefly dating when we did the dance with no pants and made a baby. 
Irresponsible I know but I’m over the moon as I’d been told I’d struggle have polycystic Overies (another thread blah)
Throughout many conversations I’ve told him he doesn’t have to quit and I don’t expect him to but I have very real worries about babies health and how I didn’t want him to smoke around her.
Or hold her after a smoke and that it lingers on your clothes ect. Over the months of my pregnacy he’s been careful to talk about his struggle and how he’s cut down. Then more recently how he’s totally quit. Saying how proud he is of himself and I’ve praised him.
Tonight I’ve seen a picture on his social media, recent hair cut and latest trendy trainers (so I know recent as I saw him in trainers) with an arm around his Dad with a lit roll up in hand. Comments like “can’t wait to toast your babies health/Wet babies head” ?!?!?! 
Is it wrong that I feel so angry and strong about this? I didn’t tell him to quit but I’m furious he lied. Am I being unreasonable? 
Be as brutal as you all like. I won’t say go easy on me because I need to know if I’m being stupid.
I haven’t said anything to him or commented on the media post. I had a panic today with babies movements and I had to drive like bat out of hell to the hospital. I thought my baby was dead. So I need a bit of perspective if I’m being out of order here. My little girl is fine though, the relief I felt was unparalleled as is the love I feel for her.
Thoughts please 