There's a couple of things that I can't seem to 'get over'.
I started going out with my BF in spring, he had been with his former girlfriend for 5+ years, but he ended it with her, left it a few months and we got together.
The other day the ex came up as a suggested follower on Instagram. Out of curiosity I had a look at her profile and he's liked every picture she's posted since we've been together including selfies/full body shots of just her. I don't think i'd be too bothered if they stayed following each other/he liked her family pics as he was involved as a member of the family for years.
The second thing is is that I asked to borrow one of his phones (Work or Personal) as we were taking two cars and my phone had died for google maps. He said that he might of got a work call or a personal call, I told him I wouldn't answer either unless he wanted me to but I don't understand why he would be so defensive/secretive especially as I needed to borrow a phone as I had no clue where I was going.
I'm not mad but it's just festering under my skin. I don't want to bring it up as I don't want to come across as possessive. AIBU?