To name and shame a would be cheat?

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His profile reads 'I'll be honest, I travel with work, married so you can guess what I'm after. 6ft4, 9inch cock and not in your area for long'

Unusually for this type of cretin he has included identifying pictures, WIBU to post screenshots of his delightful self in the hope it lets his poor spouse know what he's trying to get up to or best to leave it as none of my business?

Leave it. You have no idea what can of worms you could be opening.

Oh yuck! I'm not usually in favour of name and shame but in this instance I'd happily make an exception. Where would you post it though?

There’s probably an anonymous way of posting on something like Reddit the screenshots? Not sure though. But yeah, fuck it I would. Douche bag 😂

I would

I would. Tosser

Dating site? Isn't there a way of reporting them on there? Also.... Deffo out him. If you know where he is from and a name, you might be able to find him on fb?

No leave it; you have no idea of his situation. If I found out my DH was cheating through his picture being posted online and likely my friends, family and child seeing it the effect on me would be horrific and to be honest I wouldn’t feel grateful at knowing he was a cheat

As in I wouldn’t feel grateful due to how I found out

How would his wife see it?

'9 inch cock? You look taller than that'

Could he be using someone else photo though? Catfishing? In that case it might get the wrong person into a whole lot of trouble. Be cautious I'd say

Might not even be pictures of him so some poor innocent man will get in the shit for it.

I'd leave it. At least he's honest though just not to his wife probably

Why? And what if it is not true? A bit of a fantasist? Or his wife sees it? Or his mum or his kids?

And when you do something wrong you'd be fine to be named and shamed in public? Maybe the stocks in the public square?

If all is as it seems then he will either hook up with people who know what he wants or not. His wife may exist or not. She may be fine with it - many are - or if not , he'll get his come-uppance eventually without your intervention.

I think that's the reason for the dilema, on the one hand I would definitely want to know if my husband was out actively seeking hookups, but on the other I'd be horrified to have everyone else knowing.

I am definitely not the moral police and true enough I don't know the story, but it still feels a bit shit to turn a blind eye to that sort of behaviour.

But I bet you'd turn a blind eye to all sorts of behaviour. And unless it is illegal Society allows all sorts of things that you or I might not approve of.

His wife may know, or it might be someone's made up his profile as revenge, or it might just be fake. 🤷‍♀️

Move on.

True enough MrsReacher1, I guess I am just not used to being presented with such a brazen approach to that particular behaviour and it threw me.

I suppose it is absolutely no worse than the ones who remove their wedding ring and lie to get into someones bed. I already have a hard time trusting people and seeing this sort of thing never helps!

I understand - I have also been betrayed - not by a cheating partner though - and it does damage trust. It makes you want to protect others but this is not one of those situations where you can do much I think.
He'll get caught I expect and will be unlikely to be happy long term.