Premature Ejaculation...F@ck sake

[EmbarrassinglyFrustrated]

Had a stealthy name change for anonymity. 😂

So ladies AIBU to be getting increasingly frustrated and angry at my partner of 3 years premature ejaculation.
We have a baby together now, and before he's never lasted long but it was 8/10 long enough to satisfy. But in the last year it's just gotten so bad. I'm really starting to resent him. He literally goes for about 5 thrusts and is done. Rolls over and goes to sleep. WTF!
At this point I usually end up biting my tongue and going downstairs with a personal toy to finish myself off.
Please tell me I'm not being unreasonable because a part of me feels like I'm being such a bitch.
But at the moment this is putting a massive downer on the relationship and I honestly don't think I'm going to want to carry on this way for much longer. I WANT THE D so bad I've actually started have female wet dreams about random strangers.
I've spoken to him and urged him to see the GP about it but he doesn't seem bothered. I understand it's probably embarrassing for him and I've been so supportive in trying to help him, but my patience is wearing thin.

And before anyway says it, this is not a fake post, God I wish it was.

😂 I would tell DP, once he’d started frisky that sex was only going to happen under this understanding, “neither of us are sleeping until both of us have finished”

If he half arsed getting me there after he’d done I’d make it that I went first, and he’d only get to penetrate once I was done. You aren’t obliged to offer his sex 🤔 if it’s not doing anything for you!

Following with interest. This happens with DP. Not sure how to bring it up without upsetting him. Have briefly mentioned it in the past but he just says it bothers him too and he thinks it's just because we don't have sex much (for various reasons but this happens even if we have had sex recently so I really don't think it's just that). I know this sounds weird for a female but actually I find it easier to orgasm through PIV than anything else which makes it even more frustrating.

Is he selfish in other ways??

As far as selfish, I'd say he's very inconsiderate and a little bit emotionally immature at times. I don't think he is selfish on purpose.

I have in the past asked to him on more than one occasion if he would assist in finishing me off which he usually responds that he is no longer in the mood or tired.

His attitude and lack of caring is putting a massive downer on the relationship and I am really starting to resent him. I couldn't tell you if it is geniune PE or he's just not holding back due to selfishness.

And as for the nay sayers, this is not a fake post, I knew the accusations of fakeness were going to come in hence the pre empting. I really wish it was fake, for my own sake. I clearly just talk like a man

You need to destimulate him with a dog carcass or something.

You need to destimulate him with a dog carcass or something.

Haha as funny as it sounds I have tried slowing him down by trying to get him to invision completely off putting things but apparently it doesn't work.

And as far as PIV goes, I really enjoy it. If I wanted to get off without PIV I wouldn't need him to do that, although it would still be nice if he did, PIV can only be done with DP and I absolutely love it, the closeness etc, but it's just not happening anymore and I hate it.

he usually responds that he is no longer in the mood or tired

Selfish fucking wanker. I wouldn't DREAM of saying that to my DP if she hadn't finished. Not in a million fucking years.

My dh said from the start of our relationship that he likes to be the loser in bed and always come last!!
He'd love me to share this with strangers but he's not exactly good at lasting long but it doesn't matter as it's always ladies and then we're both happy.
Have you actually asked him why he seems totally uninterested in pleasing you?!

ladies first

A what, a dog carcass? I just, I daren't even Google.

I believe oral is quite intimate if its closeness you enjoy.

I thought Premature Ejaculation was the Prime Minister of Spain ?

I tried to talk to him tonight, but he keeps telling me that he doesn't want to talk about it.
But for me it's so much more now than just the PE, it's his behaviour towards me as well, he's yet to actually acknowledged my conversation.
Part of me is wondering if this is the end.

I wouldn’t bother having sex with him at all. He’ll soon get to the doctors! Won’t change his selfishness though.
My husbands penis doesn’t even get acknowledged until I’ve cum at least once!

If he’s not willing to talk about it I’m not sure I’d be willing to have sex in your position. I’ve never been a fan of withholding anything, but you need to talk to him about it. He selfish behaviour is only going to make you feel more resentful.

Sorry to hijack but how do you even bring this up sensitively?

LTB

He has the ability to go to a GP and presumably a functioning tongue and hands so YADNBU.

I'm amazed at the selfishness of my fellow man. YANBU

Tell him no more sex at all if he proposes to carry on this way. You are getting no pleasure from it, so why would you bother with him?

You "WANT THE D"

My 11yo nephew could probably make a better sounding woman.