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To hate the way my neighbours treat their dog?

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mydogisthebest · 18/11/2018 17:00

Not really asking for advice but just want to let off steam that I hate my neighbours because of the way they treat their dog.

It's a small breed, one most people would regard as a lap dog type. If the neighbours are there the dog is tied up in the garden on a lead attached to a piece of rope with a stake in the grass. He only has the grass to lie on and no shelter. He does usually have food and water.

When the neighbours are out (at work or out in evening/weekend) the dog is inside.

So today they are in and the dog has been in the garden since 8am. It is unlikely to be taken inside until about 11pm (when they go to bed). So basically it doesn't spend any time with them. It's either outside on its own or inside on its own.

It barks (or rather yaps) at anything and everything which is quite annoying but the thing that annoys me is that it often barks and cries while staring at the house. In other words because it wants to go inside. It has been barking literally constantly for the last 2 hours and if I look out the bedroom window it is just standing looking at their house.

If it rains heavily they will usually take it in but I think often they don't realise it is raining. When we had snow it was out there in it all the time.

I love dogs. I have 2 of my own and have had dogs for over 30 years BUT why the hell would you get a dog then never spend any time with it? They never take it for a walk, never play with it, no interaction at all except to pick it up to take it in for the night or if they go out.

I have contacted the RSPCA several times but as the dog has food and water they are not interested. I have contacted the council and the dog warden but they are not interested.

I did try to talk to the neighbours but they were not interested and now they blank me and DH if they see us.

I feel so sorry for the dog and just wish I could do something. Another neighbour said she was tempted to steal him.

OP posts:
Fucksgiven · 18/11/2018 23:46

Doesn't it have a kennel? I wouldn't allow a dog in the house (but wouldn't have one anyway)

Menarefrommarsitwouldseem · 19/11/2018 00:10

The RSPCA are a total joke.
We have a horrible lady behind our house with 8 small dogs that are just bred over and over.
They are kept in the conservatory whatever the weather.
Locked in crates

Shit everywhere
She's always shouting at them

And the RSPCA went round and said when I called for an update as it upsets me so much

They have food, shelter and water. Nothing we can do.

I would be tempted in your position OP to take the dog. Wrong yes. But that's just me.
I would do it for the woman behind me but she never leaves the house and there's 8 of them.

mydogisthebest · 19/11/2018 08:37

RSPCA didn't come out. They said as dog has food and water it's ok. Also last winter they left the shed door open a lot of the time and the dog could get in there so some shelter. At the moment though there is no shelter for him. If it gets colder and he still has no shelter I will ring the RSPCA again

I have thought taking him from their garden but it would not be that easy. For a start we have a tall thick hedge between our gardens, about 7ft high so can't get over that.

I would have to go through their back gate. Our gardens are about 150ft long and the dog is near to the house. They have no curtains or blinds at the back so if they would quite likely see me. Even if they didn't the dog would go berserk barking and although they usually never seem to take any notice of his barking they may well if he was going frantic.

He also doesn't seem the friendliest of dogs. I think there is a good chance he would bite me although if I thought I could kidnap him I would take the risk.

If he was in the garden when they go out I would not hesitate but he is only out there when one or both of them is in.

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BasilFaulty · 19/11/2018 09:43

Please don't go into their garden and steal the dog, that would be burglary. I understand the desire to though.
I'd be tempted to call the RSPCA again and say you're not sure if there is food or water for the dog so at least they'd get a visit, which might make them give their heads a wobble. Poor dog. Sad

FFSFFSFFS · 19/11/2018 09:54

Agree to call RSPCA and say that theres no food or water or shelter.

Poor puppy especially now the weather's turned :-(

thelikelylass · 19/11/2018 10:15

I wish hell on earth to people who are cruel to animals, and hope you get the courage to intervene. To leave a small dog tied up in the snow where it cannot shelter, vile people.

StarsHollow123 · 19/11/2018 13:32

The Rspca have no legal powers but the council/local authority do, usually as part of their environmental health team. Depending on your area they may have someone who would respond to a welfare problem but they will definitely have someone who responds to noise concerns. A dog being left outside barking would absolutely be something they'd come out to. It might make the dog enough of an inconvenience that they give him to a centre to find a new home. Poor dog.

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