Where do I turn to? An i doing the right thing

[jjsmum84]

I have previously posted asking for help to change a court order,I strongly believe that my DS seeing his Father is not in his best interest as if is affecting him in a very negative way, I am seeking legal advice on Monday.
My huge concern is for my DS mental health, he is 4 years old and acts out in an extremely aggressive manner when he returns from spending time with his father, I know that his behaviour is trying to tell me something but he won't open up, where do I go for help? I'm heartbroken that my son is hurting I just don't know where to start looking.....help

Posted on here due to more likelihood of response

I don't think his behaviour is that unusual for a child who is only young and is confused about going between two houses. Do you and his father get on ok or are you at each other's throats?

Without knowing more, you don't seem to know why he's hurting so I wouldn't assume it is seeing his father anymore than it is returning to you... Unless there is more to the story?

What do you think the problems are ?

OP... Ignore that. Seen your previous post. Speak to the lawyer and good luck

Is there more information?

History of domestic violence, restraining order in place so have not had anything to do with his father for 3 years.
DS is staring he doesn't want to go there and some quite worrying statements that he is repeating

Bump

You could talk to a social worker however they may say its up to you to take it to court. You could share your concerns with his school or early years setting too?