Split up with ex a year ago, and we're still living together. I'm in no position to move out atm, and neither is he. I'm hoping to be out by April though.
Anyway he's been seeing someone for 8 months, and it's starting to grate on me tbh. When he first told me, I was relieved because that meant the attention was off me and onto someone else. He was very bitter about the split and very verbally abusive, so I was happy he met someone. I just thought he would meet someone, and move out. The constant seeing each other, her picking him up from our house, him coming home after being out all day with her, her constantly calling me and speaking in front of me is getting to me tbh. I just wish he would move out, and be with her. I don't need to see or hear it all the time.
When I tell him to stop speaking to her in front of me, he says I'm overreacting and it's only a "short conversation to find out where she is".
But it's not a short conversation, he starts laughing with her and talking about random things, what he ate etc.
Yesterday he packed a bag and left in the afternoon, I don't really get into his business and didn't think much of it. Thought maybe he was doing an sports activity and needed extra clothes. Fast forward to 11pm, I sent him a text asking where he was, because I was going to bed and he forgot to take his keys. He read my message but ignored it, so I went to bed. I woke up at 4am, thinking that he's been knocking on the door and that I didn't hear it. So I looked at my phone, expecting missed calls from him. Nothing.
Pretty annoyed I sent him a text saying " you could have at least told me you weren't gonna come home ". I didn't sleep well last night, he always "forgets" his keys, so wakes me up and knocks on the door 11pm, sometimes 2am .
Don't know why I'm writing this tbh, just venting and so fed up with the situation.