Parents drunk night before wedding?

[Whisky2014]

As in...I've never seen them so drunk...ever. Now they are dancing, slurring and being loud (we are sharing accommodation) so I told them to go to bed.."why?," "cause you're drunk".. then they burst out laughing and carry on. Is this normal? Is this a thing?

Huh? Is people getting drunk a thing? Is people getting drunk whilst staying in holiday accommodation the night before a big celebration a thing? Are you new to this world?

Is this your wedding, OP?

I don't know how normal it is, but it sounds like a bad idea. Their day will be ruined by a hangover.

I hope they settle down and fall asleep sooner rather than later!

Judging by your post it was only around midnight, let them have their fun!

If you don't like it take yourself to bed and enjoy a good night sleep, something the drunks won't get

You're not their keeper. Let them carry on and deal with the aftermath.

I hope they are OK on Saturday morning (which it is already of course but I mean a reasonable hour, like 9am).

Never once saw my parents drunk and wouldn't have wanted to.

It's a way of your parents waving you off.

You can’t tell other adults to go to bed.

Don’t try to adult for other adults.

I’ve seen my parents drunk. I’ve been drunk with my parents. If I’m iterated by thier drunkness I got to bed or to a different place

Sounds they will be hungover and no use to the bride/groom tomorrow.

Are they keeping others awake with their loudness?

We hired a small cottage on the lake with its own terrace and hot tub for my parents. Best £300 I ever spent. Can you escape until they fuck off to bed?

Is what normal? Adults getting drunk?

Saffy?

Is that you?

@maryjenson saffy is the name I call my DD (25) when she tries to treat me as a child

😂

If it’s your wedding YANBU, you need to sleep! Even if someone else’s it s inconsoderate to be so loud.

I actually do think it’s the OPs Wedding.

Hopefully your parents are ok this morning Whiskey

First night fever is always a killer

I would find this irritating, if not distressing. I hate seeing people drunk at the best of times, and when it's your parents who you haven't seen very drunk before, well that can rattle you. Also, you'd hope they might be of sound mind and not sick as dogs and nursing hangovers on your wedding day.

Maybe they make a habit of this in their leisure time but you're not usually around to see it?

Is it your wedding? Do they usually drink to such excess?
Can you just go to bed and ignore them?

@Whisky2014 How did the wedding go?

Hope they didn't upset you too much. I knew someone who shared accommodation with some of her immediate family the night before her wedding. The father had a row with his own son (bride's brother) and when the bride tried to calm things down, the father laid into her too. Both parents got completely smashed and had a fight. Bride's mother and sister came back to the accommodation in the small hours drunk as skunks and spent the wedding day hungover and feeling sorry for themselves. They all completely ruined her day and she has always regretted not eloping.

Yes it was my wedding! Think they went to bed at 2.30a.m and i think they kaybe regretted drinking so much! But you know what, in the end i had an AMAZING day yesterday. We all had fun and I know they were just excited having all the family together. First night fever..whoever said that was spot on.

Congratulations on your marriage! I'm glad the late night didn't spoil anyone's day.