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to think my DP has no idea?!

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Choxeur · 16/11/2018 19:46

On maternity leave, DS is 3.5 weeks old (bloody gorgeous little thing!).

I'm loving my leave. I'm finding it very tiring but have wanted a baby for so long and after many miscarriages, I wouldn't dream of complaining.

I get on with things during the day. Try to cook myself a meal at lunch, do a bit of housework when he's sleeping, catch a 30 min nap here and there. I'm always doing something.

DP gets home from work and sits on the sofa. I plonk DS on him for cuddles. DP now thinks he's immobile. Asks me to get the nappies for him from upstairs, to get him a glass of water, to turn the oven off, answer the door etc. I got annoyed with him and replied with 'you know your son is portable?'

Ever since he has walked around the house acting as though it's a struggle to pick something off the floor or to turn a tap on whilst simultaneously holding his very tiny child.

AIBU to find this really quite pathetic and to wonder how he would cope with DS on his own for a whole day?

OP posts:
ChocolateTearDrops · 17/11/2018 10:27

I plonk DS on him for cuddles

Can't he pick him up himself? You're coping well, you don't need to organise your DP's cuddle times with ds too. He's an adult, let him learn.

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