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To tell the truth in the survey?

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Bickdycicle · 14/11/2018 19:54

I've name changed for obvious reasons.

My DC's are part of a school where the HT is abit of an arseholes to be honest. Disliked by alot of parents. The schools small and over the last couple of years have taken on a few special needs children - a first for the school apparently.

I know the parents of the special needs children and have been quite frankly shocked and disgusted at some of the incidents that have happened to the special needs children since being at the school. I won't go into detail as it's outing but basically LA were involved in one case. The special needs children very much are made to feel as though they are a burden on the school.

The school has issued an anonymous survey to find out how they are doing. Am I unreasonable to state my feelings about how the special needs children are treated? It's nothing to do with me as such, my children aren't special needs. I just feel as though the school needs to know that parents won't put up with it and they should be leading by example to the children in the school. I want my DC to grow in a school that is accepting of everyone not just high achievers!

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newplacenofriends · 14/11/2018 19:56

yes, tell the truth!

newplacenofriends · 14/11/2018 19:56

how horrible that they are treating SEN children like that

SparklyMagpie · 14/11/2018 20:00

Why wouldn't you? Confused

Joinourclub · 14/11/2018 20:02

Of course you should tell the truth.

Bickdycicle · 14/11/2018 20:04

Because the survey is specifically asking about your own child with questions that are directly about your own child. Obviously my DC'S aren't special needs so I would be doing it as a third party. There is an additional comments section which I'm thinking of putting it in

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hmmwhatatodo · 14/11/2018 20:29

Sounds like you’re only hearing the parents point of view. If you knew the full facts, e.g you were actually there when things happened and know how they were followed up then fire away, but you don’t. So I’d keep out.

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